For the past 3 years we dealt with the Covid 19 threat by streaming our weekday services online through zoom but...
Effective February 4, 2023 we are resuming our in-person traditional Shabbat morning services.
The German Mills Community Centre is no longer available. Instead, we have arranged to hold our Shabbat services in the library on the lower level of Temple Har Zion, 7360 Bayview Avenue (elevator available). If you plan to attend please notify Ian Schlifer (click here) by the Thursday in advance. We ask that attendees wear a mask.
The Covid threat persists. Accordingly, we will continue weekday services on zoom. See our schedule for service times. Our zoom link is in our weekly Shabbat Bulletin. If you do not receive it, click here to email us for the link.
Our 7th Anniversary...who would have believed!
Kehillat Chaverim is a Traditional congregation that began operating on July 1, 2016. Since then we have held ~4000 twice-daily minyanim – weekdays, Shabbat, Yom Tov and High Holidays. Even now, while we have our services on zoom, there is a great feeling of friendliness and informality as we daven together. We are a community of friends who care deeply about preserving a twice daily minyan in the German Mills area. We send our weekly bulletin to almost 200 families.
Our minyanim are habit-forming – we have several men and women who come regularly to our services who, previously, were never regular shul-goers. We have proven to be a convenient, warm, and welcoming location for people commemorating Yahrzeit or saying Kaddish for a loved one. We extend an invitation to you to observe these important moments with us whether you are a member or not.
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This morning Jo-Ann Slack presented a Dvar Torah for the upcoming month of Av
January 3, 2022
Understanding the Shema
I can read the English translation of the ‘Shema’ in less than 2 minutes …
When, Esther Gitlin (Markham, Chabad) decided to explain the Shema to us, Ladies, she needed 6 weeks. I wish I could relay her passion … to do her words justice … Esther believes that the Shema is much more than a prayer. The Shema is unequivocally the pivotal core of our Jewish being.
Esther shared her personal mantra. When she prepares for the Shema … she stops … she says to herself … “I’m making this moment count’.
How do you prepare to say the Shema?
Davening the Shema is a Mitzvah … and, with all mitzvoth … you begin with a Brachah …
Baruch Adonai …
Blessed art Thou, O Lord our G-d, King of the Universe …
Ancient deities would be known for a single attribute … good or evil, powerful or sublime. Not so in Judaism … as we prepare to internalize the Unity of haShem … the good and the not so good. Our ancestors offered prayer through sacrifice … and as we move our lips in prayer, it is as if we have offered up a sacrifice to haShem.
Who formest light and creates darkness …
For two whole pages in the prayer book, we glean how the Angels rise to the occasion and praise G-d. But read carefully, for the Angels, this is not a matter of free choice.
obedient servants of divine
… with purity of purpose and united strength
reverently perform the will of their Creator …
Holy, holy, holy
is the Lord of hosts.
It is through a Midrash that Esther Gitlin provides clarity to these words of prayer, that can so easily become rote prayer. When the Angels reach this crescendo in their prayers and look down (remember they were ascending Jacob’s ladder) … they look down … and they are jealous. For Angels are not like Jacob … nor like us. She explains: We bear an earthly face, but from above, we are seen to have a heavenly face, as well. Unlike the angels, who are so programmed to be only Angels, we have the potential to rise above our very potential.
One more story ...
Moses is bringing the Torah down to the People. But the Angels complained saying that they were more holy than the People and they wanted the Torah to remain with them. Moses responds: What does Torah say … not to steal, not to kill, etc., etc. That’s why it must go down. You, Angels are holy … you are perfect. Humans need to struggle to be perfect. G-d chooses us with all our foibles … above the Angels.
In the Shema, we will declare our uncompromising belief in the absolute Unity of G-d.
One sentence … one sentence is all that is needed to define G-d’s mandate:
Hear, O Israel, the Lord our G-d, the Lord is One.
Shema … listen … hear … understand!
Understand …G-d’s sovereignty … accepting the divinity of G-d … acknowledging the unification of one G-d.
Shema Yisrael: Of all the Biblical names used to address the people of Israel … Yisrael … Jacob’s g-dly name … is the highest accolade. Wearing this mantel … Yisrael … we are being prodded to be the best we can be … and by example, to show the world how wonderful being our best can be.
The Lord our G-d: This is our ‘personal’ haShem … a G-d to whom our daily struggles matter.
The Lord is One: He is … He was … He will be …the unpronounceable. In this world of time and space … oneness is unique to G-d and we are the extension to this uniqueness. We believe that G-d chose to make a difference … and He chose us to be his partner.
A comment on the writing of the ‘yan’ and the ‘daled’. A Mishnah is used to explain this peculiarity: HaShem created this world … but left off His signature. He wants us to be His signature … to be G-d’s Witness.
Blessed be His glorious kingdom for ever and ever.
Initially, this line of prayer was not included in the ancient text. Another Midrash is used to explain: The Shema … our foremost prayer predates Jacob. On his deathbed, he fears that his sons will abandon the faith … and so he has them promise to say the Shema. Jacob’s response then is … Blessed be the glorious kingdom for ever and ever. Or perhaps you would favour this Midrash … In our prayers, the Angels praise G-d in all his glory … and because we are not at their level … we say it softly. But, come Yom Kippur, when we feel sufficiently angelic, we pray with more confidence … and we say ‘Blessed be His glorious kingdom for ever and ever’ out loud.
Thou shalt love your G-d …
You can command obedience … but, not love. During the Shema, G-d is asking us to create an environment in which our love … of G-d … can blossom. To quote Esther Gitlin … the place of G-d in our everyday world, is at a distance. Consider how in your life you draw those you love closer to you by doing something they would like/love … so similarly, you demonstrate your love for G-d by saying His prayer.
… with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy might …
With your whole being … make your mitzvoth pleasurable to yourself … control your animal soul … ward off indifference … appreciate life … and … be willing to give up one’s own will for G-d will.
That’s a lot to ask …
The Shema closes with a list of instructions …
You must teach … these exact words … not just to love haShem , but, to make haShem beloved.
The commandment to teach is repeated … the Shema is not only to be your personal prayer, but, communally shared … from generation to generation.
It is too easy to lose sight of our role in davening. Goodness … G-d’s blessings … from G-d … not our actions alone. Therefore, the men among us don accoutrements … tiffilin, tzizit katan … that thread of blue (lost in antiquity … and not to return until the Meshiach comes again). Similarly we are commanded to adorn our houses … with Mezzuzoth. These are our visual reminders of our partnership with G-d.
I end with a story … perhaps, one you have heard before.
The Roman Emperor of Jerusalem had amongst his advisors, the wise Rabbi who he would consult on all things Jewish. Wishing to reward the Rabbi, he summoned him to his court and presented him with a large, precious gem. The Rabbi’s neighbours asked what gift he intended to give the Emperor in return. The Rabbi gave great thought indeed to what he, a humble soul, could possibly give the Emperor of all Judea. Finally, the Rabbi returned to the court with a small wooden box. The Emperor was none too pleased … I gave you a precious stone worth many, many shekels … and in return you have given me this box, which for all I can see has no value. The Rabbi begged the Emperor’s indulgence. True, you gave me a precious gift of great value … for which I must now place guards at my door, so that no one steals it from me. I, in turn, gave you a Mezzuzah … a wooden box containing our most precious words … place it on your doorpost … and know that its placement there means G-d is guarding you.
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This morning Jo-Ann Slack presented a Dvar Torah for the upcoming month of Av
Dvar Torah: July 09, 2021
I’ll begin on a personal note …
10+ years have passed since my dear sister, Maxa, of blessed memory, passed on. As her family was not inclined to do so, I found myself attending Morning services and reciting Kaddish in her memory. 11 months came and went … and I continued on …
No one was more surprised than I …
Perhaps it was the sincere welcome and support David Sefton extended … Perhaps …
There were many times, I questioned my presence at Morning services … repeating the same prayers, day following day. Wasn’t I supposed to find it boring?
As time passed, first words (my favourite … lovingkindness), followed by a turn of a phrase, and finally certain prayers, in entirety, provided not only comfort and solace but, meaningful direction to my day.
So, 10 years have passed, and I am still drawn to Morning prayers.
Each morning, I search out my favourite prayers …
-worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness …
-our lives we trust into thy loving hand …
-grant us this day, and every day, grace, kindness, and mercy, both in Thy sight and in the sight of all men …
-cause a new light to shine upon Zion, and may we all be worthy to delight in its
splendor …
And, for my 2 sisters that have passed …
-refusing to acknowledge death as triumphant … permitting the withered blossom, fallen from the tree of mankind, to flower and develop again in the human heart ...
And truly, these personally meaningful lines of prayer would have sustained my attendance …
But, then … Covid happened! And, like the rest of you, I searched the web for programs to fill my day.
Chabad Thornhill was one of my answers.
Over the past 6 months or so, a ½ h on Monday mornings was reserved for studying Morning prayers.
And so, this morning, I want to share a few insights that I have added to my understanding of Morning Prayer thanks to Esther Gitlin … who I must say, for me, is a truly inspirational speaker.
Esther Gitlin suggested that Morning prayers be likened to ‘steps of a ladder’ … as we complete each step on the ladder, we prepare for and allow ourselves, to emotionally climb to a heightened level of devotion.
She addressed the ‘how to’ … how to use Morning Prayer to elevate ones intent of devotion.
The steps are as follows: 1) Introductory morning prayers, 2) the Ashrei, 3) the Shema and 4) the Amidah. Fortunate for you, … I have only covered Step 1 and Step 2 …
Baruch Atah Adoni … Blessed art Thou … those 3 words set the stage for ones initial engagement to Morning prayers. The use of ‘Atah’ … a deliberate choice of the personal pronoun when addressing G-d. How very powerful … that we pray to a G-d who truly cares about us … on a personal level.
The first Baruch Atah Adonai …
Blessed art Thou, O Lord our G-d, King of the Universe, who removest sleep from mine eyes and slumber from mine eyelids. Research tells us that during our sleeping hours, our body slows down … so when we return to our waking hours … and read the words … ‘brought my soul up from the grave’ … we have much to be grateful for … another day!
Chabad orders the 15 Blessings in the chronological order of our greeting a new day … from our very waking to our actively participating in daily life.
-who openest the eyes of the blind … truly seeing and taking note of our surroundings …
-who releasest the bound … literally, the blessing of being able to move …
-who raisest up them that are bowed down … having the strength to undertake whatever emotional burdens we might face that very day …
-who clothest the naked … just as we dress the Torah, because it is holy … so we dress ourselves, sometimes, specifically taking that extra effort … for example, for the Shabbat, for the Yom Tovim … we are compelled to understand that our body, too, is
holy …
-who provided for all my needs … nothing to do with material needs. G-d has graced you with all the wisdom and understanding you will need, so that you journey through your day … you perform at your optimum … no one can expect more … G-d does not ask for more …
-who girdest Israel with strength … donning those articles of clothing that are sanctified. As you put on your teffilin … do so, not out of habit, but with sincere intent …
Moving on to the next passage of interest …
Were it not that we are Thy people, children of Thy Covenant, descendants, of Abraham … seed of Isaac his only son, who was bound upon the altar, the congregation of
Jacob …
Early on in our Morning prayers, we enumerate our Ancestors … calling on G-d … trusting that on their merit … G-d will be our Redeemer, too. We include mention of the Akkadah (The Sacrifice) … as we repeat these words, we are promising that we will meet the day’s challenges with the same piety as did Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.
When we reach the prayer … Baruch She’amar …
Praised be He who spoke and the world rose … praised be He. How infinitely wonderful it is to acknowledge … each day … the creation of something from nothing.
During morning prayers, we include the concept of the Wandering Jew. O gather from the four corners of the earth those that hope in Thee. Perhaps, because as a Nation, we have travelled far and wide to the 4 corners of the globe, we can now pray to be redeemed and returned to Zion.
The 2nd level of Devotion is ushered in as be begin the Ashrei …
For this is the duty of all creatures towards Thee, O Lord our G-d and G-d of our fathers, to give thanks unto Thee, to laud, adore and praise Thee, even beyond all the words of song and praise uttered by David, the son of Jesse, Thine anointed servant.
Well … the Rabbis thought better of leaving it in the hands of the supplicant … who might not find words of such magnitude to do the ‘job’ right.
And, so, King David’s Psalms … songs of praise … were chosen to give reverence to
G-d …
As a prayer, the Ashrei is held in such high esteem … it is repeated 3 times in the course of our day … twice during Shacharit … and once more at Mincha/Maariv.
You probably knew, but I didn’t, that Psalm 145 is written acrostically … but, coming to the letter ‘Nun’ … an exception is made. ‘Nun’ does not get to begin its poetic line … slipped into the line beginning with its following letter, the ‘sof. In so doing … David was able to circumvent the negativity of the letter ‘Nun’ itself … or so, I have been told!
6 Psalms in which we acknowledge and praise G-d …
So, how many times have you read the line …
And Thou givest them their food in due season.
‘Food’ … our most basic of needs … a need that must be satisfied each and every day. When we pray … Thou givest them food … we acknowledge G-d’s presence in our most finite being.
As we approach the conclusion of the Psalms of Praise we recite:
Amen, Amen.Rabbi Yhudah haLevi … 1040 … Spain … poetically wrote: Through prayer the heart wants to soar … to leave the body for that moment … and join the Eternal G-d. And how do we show that … how do we make that shift … we pray ‘Amen, Amen’ … and, then, we stand!
In honour of Rosh Chodesh, I will conclude with these words of prayer.
Then sang Moses and the Children of Israel this song unto the Lord.
I sing unto the Lord, for He is highly exalted …
The Lord is my strength and song.
And He hath become my salvation.
This is The Song of Redemption … the very song that Miriam sings in the Song of the Sea. Moses has borrowed her words … let it not be mistaken … they are Miriam’s words. Miriam knew, as women of all ages have known … to look forward during hard times … to look to the future.
Amen
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We have been holding our services (other than High Holiday services) at the German Mills Community Centre, a heritage one-room schoolhouse at 80 German Mills Road. Our services have been streamed on Zoom since March 2020.
Rabbi Howard Morrison of Beth Emeth is our Mara d’Atra.
We study Talmud every Wednesday morning after services - leading to stimulating discussion over coffee.
We initially established ourselves as the German Mills Minyan. In January, 2017, we were incorporated as Kehillat Chaverim. In early November, 2017 our application for charitable status was approved by the Canada Revenue Agency.
We can provide burial rights to members in the Kehillat Chaverim section at Pardes Chaim Cemetery.
We are Kehillat Chaverim – our community of friends.